Prayer is the necessity for the Christian life. Prayer is also the one of the most misunderstood concepts in the world. Christians or religious people will most likely have prayed to a higher being(s) before. Non-believers know and might have practiced prayer before. And a lot of people might know and have prayed the Lord’s Prayer in Matthew 6:9-13. Note: This is generic, and there is no stats to back up my statements.
When asking what prayer is, the usual responses I get are these:
– Talking to God (due some circumstances)
– Asking Him for needs and wants
Indeed, God does want us to ask Him. In the Bible, there are many passages that speak about that.
“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you……” (Matthew 7:7-11 ESV)
“If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!” (Luke 11:13 ESV)
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:6-7 ESV)
“…and whatever we ask we receive from him, because we keep his commandments and do what pleases him.” (1 John 3:22 ESV)
There are numerous passages in the Old Testament especially in Psalms.
However, when reading those passages in the Bible, it sounds like prayer is all about asking God for stuff. It is definitely true that we are to ask God and present our requests before God. When you read James 4, these people fight and quarrel because they don’t have the stuff they want. They don’t have the stuff they want because they never asked for them. That’s true. But when you read a little further down, you see that God doesn’t always answer prayers. God doesn’t always give you what you want. Not only that, God doesn’t always listen or be attentive to people’s prayers. Here are some reasons:
James 1:5-8 says that if we doubt when we ask God for wisdom, then we’re not going to receive anything.
James 4, what we just read, says that if we have a wrong motive for asking God, then we’re not going to get anything.
1 Peter 3:7 says that if a husband does not respect/honor his wife in an understanding way, then his prayer will be hindered.
Isaiah 58 says if that if we don’t care for the poor even though we fast and pray, then he’s not going to listen.
Isaiah 1:12-17 says that God doesn’t even want to hear our prayers because our hands are full of blood and fail to seek justice for the fatherless and the widow.
Amos 5:21-24 says that God doesn’t even want to receive our worship.
Prayer is not always about asking God for stuff, but it is about having a conversation and developing your relationship with Him. In 1 John 5:15, knowing that God hears in whatever we ask is already enough. It doesn’t mean God will answer our prayer immediately even though it according to His will, but that we have faith according to James. In 2 Chronicles, when God was speaking to Solomon in his dream, he said that the Israelite ought to humble ourselves, pray, seek, and turn from their wicked ways, and God will heal their land. I think we need to humble ourselves before the Almighty God.
Listen, my girlfriend said it right, God is not a genie. God is God. You are talking to a Holy, Majestic, Almighty, All-Powerful, and All-Knowing God. When you come before Him in prayer, you better, I warn you, you better have a heart of reverence. His thought is HIGHER than our thoughts. We can never pull God’s legs. God delights in those who humbles themselves, and He will exalt them. “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble” (James and 1 Peter)
Not only that, prayer does not end simply with “In Jesus name”. There’s no such formula in prayer. Prayer/Worship is a lifestyle. Whether you sit, walk, eat, drink. Prayer is constant and continuous because it about having a relationship with the Father.
Here are some important considerations in Effective Prayer (given by Wayne Grudem in his book called “Systematic Theology”)
- Praying According to God’s will
- Praying With Faith
- Obedience
- Confession of Sins
- Forgiving Others
- Humility
- Continuing in Prayer Over Time
- Praying Earnestly
- Waiting on the Lord
- Praying in Private
- Praying With Others
- Fasting
- What About Unanswered Prayer?
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